Time, Silence, and Self-Discovery: lessons from Liechtenstein

1st Blog by Simona Gjorgjievska - Wednesday, 30 October 2024, 9:20 PM

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It’s been just over a month since I arrived in Vaduz, Liechtenstein, for my Erasmus exchange, and I feel like I’m gradually settling into the unique rhythm of life here. This experience has shown me just how different life can be between countries, especially when it comes to daily routines, social expectations, and cultural values. Coming from Macedonia and studying in Bulgaria, I’m no stranger to cultural diversity, but Liechtenstein has surprised me. 

One of the first cultural differences I noticed here was the importance placed on punctuality. In this country, time holds significant value. Everything runs exactly on schedule. In Macedonia, as well as in Bulgaria, time feels a little more flexible. The social events and even classes don’t start right on time-it’s normal for things to start a bit late. Life there has a relaxed rhythm, and people seem to view time as more of a suggestion than a rule.

In Vaduz, punctuality is not just a habit, it’s a reflection of respect. Arriving on time, whether for a class or even a casual meeting, communicates that you value the other person’s time. This was a bit of a culture shock at first, and I found myself feeling pressured to adjust my natural pace. However, as I became more familiar with it, I began to appreciate this structured way of life. I started planning my day around set schedules, and this made me feel more organized and even calmer. It was reassuring to know exactly when things would happen or when places would close. Back home, I never thought about time this way, but now I see how a structured approach allow people to plan more effectively.

Even the closing times of the stores have taught me something. The supermarkets here close early, often around 6 or 7 p.m. In Macedonia and Bulgaria, most stores stay open much later, so there’s a sense of convenience and flexibility in shopping. Here, people value their personal time in the evenings, and shops close early to allow workers to spend time with family or simply relax. This has made me rethink how I view work-life balance, and it has highlighted how different cultures prioritize time.

The second major cultural difference I noticed was the overwhelming sense of quietness. In Vaduz, the streets are calm, there’s little noise, and life moves at a slow pace. In Sofia, where I study, the city is filled with people, sounds, and activities. The energy in the air is lively and social, and there’s a sense of constant movement. In Liechtenstein, this kind of vibrancy is replaced by a quieter, more reserved atmosphere.

Initially, the silence here made me feel a bit isolated. I missed the familiar background noise and the feeling of community that comes from crowded streets and social gatherings. But over time, I’ve started to appreciate the stillness. This quiet has given me space to think and to focus on myself. It has also allowed me to explore nature, which Liechtenstein is known for. Walking in peaceful silence, enveloped by breathtaking mountains, has quickly become a highlight of my time here. 

Experiencing these aspects of life in Liechtenstein has made me think more about my own values and assumptions. I never realized just how much I took flexible time and lively surroundings for granted. Growing up, I was used to the idea that relationships and social gatherings were more important than the exact time we met up. In Macedonia, and also in Bulgaria, being with others and enjoying the moment matters more than strict punctuality. Here, arriving on time shows respect and values everyone’s personal schedule.

The quiet lifestyle has also made me more aware of how much I rely on external stimulation. I grew up in a place where noise and social activity were always present, so I assumed that silence was lonely. Now, I’m learning to see silence as peaceful and even necessary. This experience has shown me that stillness can bring its own form of happiness and that sometimes being alone is an opportunity for personal growth.

Liechtenstein’s culture of punctuality and quietness has taught me to slow down and be more intentional with my time. The changes I’ve experienced here have encouraged me to find value in structure and to embrace solitude in a way I hadn’t before. As my exchange continues, I look forward to discovering more about myself and this unique place. I know I’ll return home with a greater appreciation for time and an understanding that different ways of living can offer fresh perspectives.

This experience has been both challenging and rewarding, and I’m excited to see how the next months unfold. I’m grateful for this opportunity to learn not just about Liechtenstein’s culture but also about my own.